Thursday, February 9, 2012

Joey's Mom: An Introduction


I was scouring Flickr for images of real vintage interiors when I came across Joey Harrison's Flickr stream and the beautiful images he uploaded on behalf of his mom.

Joey's mom studied photography and worked diligently to perfect her craft. Most of the uploaded photos are from her marriage to Joey's dad, Jerry. I loved peering into her world as a newlywed and living a vintage life vicariously through her. Her photos are beautiful (especially her self-portraits) and the accompanying stories are enchanting.


Joey was kind enough to tell us more about his mom and his experience of uploading her photographs and sharing them with the world. Over the next several weeks, we're going to dive into Joey's mom's world and learn more about her life and talent. (Joey's mom likes to keep her anonymity, so we will refer to her as Joey's mom throughout the series.)

Tell us a little about yourself and your mom.

My mom grew up poor on a Michigan farm with her parents, a sister and three brothers. Various foster children boarded with the family over the years, and a girl slightly younger than my mother was adopted. My mom’s mom documented their life on the farm with her Brownie camera − not especially skillfully or artistically – but she no doubt influenced my mother’s later pursuit of photography.


The Depression left a lasting impact on my mother, forging lifelong habits of frugality and likely played a role in her tremendous personal ambition.

My mother married my father one year out of high school. Their only child − me − came at the end of their seven years together. My mom remarried a few years later and gave birth to two girls.

During the time my parents were married, my mom worked for the neighborhood doctor, who allowed her to set up a darkroom in his office. My father worked as a barber just a few doors down the street. Together, they had a second career developing property and renting apartments. During my mom’s second marriage, she created a small real estate empire piece by piece, doing as much of the work as she could and contracting what she couldn’t. She eventually owned around a dozen properties − single-family homes, duplexes, and some multi-unit buildings.


How did she learn photography and is she still an avid photographer?

My mother is mostly self-taught, though she did get assistance from helpful staffers at various photo stores in Grand Rapids. She also belonged to a serious photography club for about a year.

Once my sisters were born, her passion for photography took a back seat to child-rearing and managing her properties. She was extremely organized, efficient, and energetic. When I think back on those years, I remember her constantly on the move: meeting prospective tenants, making clothes for my sisters, cooking and cleaning, painting walls, gardening, dealing with contractors. The demands never let up, and neither did she.

During all that time she continued to take photographs of family activities. Darkroom work was reserved for once-yearly marathon sessions creating handmade Christmas cards. Her photographic ambitions were no longer artistic; she simply wanted to document her family and, later, her travels.


Did you grow up knowing she had a stash of amazing photographs and stories, or was this treasure trove a recent discovery?

She kept most of her black & white prints in a drawer in the basement. I was quite familiar with most of them and fascinated by the world they depicted because that world was the family I was born into but which disintegrated before my memories began. So I didn’t look at them as an outsider might; their great value to me was personal. Many years later I began to see how skilled and creative she was, and what a distinctive photographic style she had.


Was she immediately on board with the idea of posting her photos online along with stories?

Not at all. I had to coax and prod. She was very busy with her various activities and insecure enough to imagine that others would not be interested. As the months went by, the number of views and comments picked up rapidly, and as they did, her engagement with the project intensified.

Did you discover something new about your mom in the process of gathering her photographs and stories?

Yes, there were some stories I’d never heard, and I’m always happy to find these missing puzzle pieces. But I’m not sure any number of photos or stories would completely unravel the mystery of their marriage. It’s mysterious to me because it all took place before my memories kicked in. I was still an infant when my parents split.


Which is your favorite photo and story?

Picking a favorite photo is difficult. There are probably a dozen that I might call my favorite depending on which day you ask me. Today I’d say it’s the one below because it depicts the happy marriage that I want to believe in. It shows them collaborating (creating the photo) and having fun doing it. And it showcases my mom’s craft and artistry.


Is your own photography influenced by your mother’s?

Stylistically not so much. We have different eyes and different aims. But her interest in photography was hugely influential. When I first got serious about photography, I had no idea what I wanted to shoot or what I thought was a good photograph. I simply wanted to do what she had done: take photographs and assemble a body of work. She also passed along a visual gene, if such a thing exists. From the time I was a child, I was someone who looked at the world with wide, wondering eyes. It was all so very interesting − and still is. As I got a little older my critical skills began to develop. This thing is exceptionally interesting; this thing is not. And the things that struck me as interesting seemed worthy of preserving photographically.



Self Portrait


I am pleased to bring you more of Joey's mom's photography and her beautiful stories in the coming weeks! Stay tuned for "Joey's Mom Thursdays" each week. :)

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Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Favorite Finds: Stacie's Jacket and Belt


Today's Favorite Find comes from Stacie, one of my most favorite people I have met through my job. She is a super talented publicist and such a kind and generous friend! Stacie is passionate about thrifting and finds a lot of great clothes for herself and her daughter at Goodwill. I asked Stacie what her favorite items from Goodwill are, and she shares below!



What is your favorite find and where did you find it?

My big favorite find is the brown leather belt which I found at Goodwill. I was in line one day purchasing a few things and on a table near the register was this belt. Another day at the same Goodwill I found the jacket - it was half off that day too, so I think I paid $2.50.

What drew you to the belt/jacket?

I guess someone just laid the belt down on this table and ended up not wanting it. I'm glad they did because I love it and wear it all the time. It was $1. For the jacket, I love its color and it's just cotton and easy to wash and wear as a dress up jacket or casual.

What is your favorite memory in the belt/skirt?

I've just had the belt and jacket for a handful of months so I'm just starting to make memories...I know this belt is going to last me for years, it seems so well-made. Still can't believe
it was a buck.

Why do you love buying vintage/secondhand?

I love a bargain, and I love the search for a diamond in the rough. Plus, there's nothing better than owning something that had its own history before it became mine.

I agree, Stacie! I love knowing that my new favorite finds have had a life before me! Thanks so much for sharing, stylish lady!

PS - I am trying out another "favorite finds" banner. Do you have a preference??

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Tuesday, February 7, 2012

DIY Dilemma: Dyeing A Dress


In December, I won a dress from Beth's blog, Parsimonia. I was ecstatic! I received the dress and was so excited to try it on! The only problem was that as a pale redhead, the color of the top looked baaaad on me. There are definitely certain colors I can't wear and this particular gold/brown color looked pretty rough against my skin. I felt so guilty that I had won this beautiful dress but couldn't make it work for me!

I decided to take a risk and dye it. I had seen other bloggers dye formal dresses with great success, so I took a chance because I love the style of the dress!

I used a bottle of black RIT dye and added a cup of salt based on the instructions on the bottle.


I let it soak for 45 minutes and when I glanced in, I could tell something was not right... I pulled it out and... womp womp:


It's definitely not black... The top barely changed and the bottom turned pink/lavender. I actually tried again with TWO bottles of dye and let it soak for even longer, and it came out just slightly darker that time.

Some friends have mentioned that synthetics don't dye, but if I remember correctly, the fabrics were all listed on the RIT bottle. The top is a polyester spandex mix while the bottom is polyester, spandex, and rayon.

Anyone have any hints or tips for changing the color more? I love, love, love the style of the dress but the brown/gold still isn't working for me... unless I get a spray tan. :)

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Monday, February 6, 2012

Owl Really: 8 Monthiversary!







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My booth had very humble beginnings in the strangest-shaped booth of the Tennessee Antique Mall. After doing OK in it for a few months (June-Aug), I moved to the booth next door that has a more traditional booth shape. It has been such a fun 8 months - it really has flown! It doesn't feel like I've been in business that long.

I'm not getting rich from the booth - in all honesty, I'm breaking even. I love being able to shop and thrift and bring home awesome finds but not clutter my house with them. And I love providing a service for people - for making unique items available so they can decorate their house. I love connecting people with items.

If you are reading because you've been by my booth, I would love to hear from you! Please leave a comment or email me at jamie@owlreally.com and say hello and let me know what you bought (if anything) or just say hello! Truthfully I would love to know if my in-booth marketing is bringing people to the blog and I would love to hear feedback from people who have visited.

Thank you for your support, it means the world to me!


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Friday, February 3, 2012

Friday Fun: My Daguerreotype Boyfriend



This site is absolutely hilarious. Vintage photos of convicted criminals who look like Hollywood stars? Check! Antique portraits that look like today's hipsters? Check!

Happy Friday!


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Thursday, February 2, 2012

I got my Whimseybox!


Have you heard of Whimseybox? It's a fun project where you subscribe to receive a box of craft supplies each month! I signed up and received my first box last week. I haven't dug in to make anything yet, but I love the idea of receiving a box of surprise craft goodies each month to inspire me!

In my first Whimseybox, I received a small jar of orange paint, a blank slap bracelet to decorate, some pink/orange ribbon wrapped around a blue stripey straw, 2 envelopes of sequins, and 2 packs of Sculpey clay. You crafty types - are your gears spinning yet on what you would make with the items?? If you have some ideas, please leave a comment!

Want to know more about Whimseybox? Find out more in the video below and on their website!

Introducing Whimseybox from Alicia DiRago on Vimeo.



Are you Whimseyboxing? I would love to hear if so - and see what you make!


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Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Favorite Finds: ModFruGal's Bar Stools


ModFruGal is a fellow Nashville blogger with a heart for vintage. She blogs about decorating her mid-century home - and she has such a great eye! Not many of our Favorite Finds contributors have children, so I especially wanted to ask her how her husband and kids feel about her decorating. I love what she had to say about involving her kids in decorating decisions!

She shares her favorite find below - plus a handy DIY tip on how to restore chrome!


What is your favorite find and where did you find it?

My favorite find for the last year or so is a pair of bar stools I bought at the Nashville Flea Market. I use them several times a day, as they sit at my desk and the breakfast bar in our kitchen.


What were your first thoughts - did the rusty parts scare you off?

When I saw them, I was immediately smitten with the lines and curves, but the chrome was looking pretty rough. It did make me wonder if they would clean up enough without replating, but I chatted with the dealer and talked him down on his price given the condition, took a chance and dragged them home.

How did you restore the chrome?

After some research, I discovered the coke solution. Wadded up tin foil used with any soda containing phosphoric acid does a great job of cleaning surface rust and cleaning out some of the pitted areas. It is incredibly disconcerting cleaning the chrome and realizing that stuff goes in my body (although very rarely since)! More details on how I restored them are here. I'd like to reupholster them at some point, but I kind of love the yellow for now.


Does your family all share your design eye?

They are starting to! My husband is quite creative in his own right, and has always been supportive of my design decisions, even when he's not sure! Many times he'll say "I don't see it, but I'll trust you." He also has great technical skills, so together we make a great team. When the kids were younger, they were always resistant to changes around the house, but now, they see the possibilities and are learning how small changes can make a big difference in everyday life.

They are really starting to develop their own eye which thrills me beyond measure. I like to ask their advice and input when decorating/renovating/getting dressed up and I think allowing them to make certain decisions about the house gives them a feel for how things go together and gives them a greater sense of ownership and inclusion at home. This is a great time of year to see them in action as we clean out closets and shelves and leave them to restyle their knick knacks.

We just rearranged the furniture in my oldest son's room this past weekend, and he's beaming with pride, so of course, the youngest wants a new arrangement now too! It will be interesting to see what styles they gravitate toward as they become adults. Fussy Victorian? Masculine Industrial? I can't wait to see it develop.

Why do you love to buy vintage/secondhand?

Where do I start? Styles and trends through the decades are preserved in fashion and home furnishings and I love having a little flair from bygone days in my life. I must credit my mother for introducing me to the world of flea markets and estate sales as a young child. She has been selling mostly French antiques for decades and I learned from her and my very handy father how to refinish a piece of wood or metal furniture. Summer days were spent with drop cloths spread out on the driveway, and I imagine my kids will have those same memories! (Although I learned early that paint stripper will eat through asphalt!)

Vintage has a sense of character, history and individuality that a new piece will never have. As a struggling college student, and then a newlywed, buying vintage was/is vastly more affordable. It goes without saying the quality of most vintage furniture is far superior than any engineered wood pieces made today. That's why it's still around.

I think my attraction to less than perfect vintage pieces is also part of my passion for rehabbing them. I like to pick the piece everyone else says is too much work...but that's just who I am. I joke that I run a "furniture rescue" operation in my basement. Our house was the one everyone else walked away from too, but we took it on. We see diamonds in the rough, or maybe we just like the extra work!

I also like imperfect pieces because an extra ding or scuff will just blend in. As much as I want to have a pretty house, it has to be livable, and allowing the kids to be kids in every room of the house is important to me. They understand common sense rules (don't stand on coffee tables, no jumping on barcelona chairs, etc..) but there is no place they aren't allowed to go and play. There tends to be as much sword fighting in the living room as the playroom, and if a wooden sword dings the chair, it just blends in. Less stress for me, and for them. We all win.

I love ModFruGal's philosophies! Thank you so much for sharing such thoughtful answers! Be sure to follow her bog!


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